Thursday, May 19, 2016

War on Masculinity or Why “Nice Guys Finish Last”



I saw an article the other day in which some “Nice Guy” left a note on a young ladies vehicle, lambasting her and all women who claim that they can’t find any “Nice Guys”, because she kicked him, a self-proclaimed “Nice Guy” to the curb. Here is the issue as I see it. Women think they want nice guys, what they really want (WHOA, you claim to know what women really want? Yes, just read on..) is a MAN. Women want one thing in a man, whether they recognize it or not, they want a masculine man. That’s why it seems as if most women prefer “bad boys”. Bad boys are, above all else, very masculine. Bad boys also have a tendency to treat women like shit. If they can find a “Nice Guy” that happens to be a MAN, that is just icing on the cake.
I don’t care how liberated, feminine, modern, independent, or feminist a woman may be, subliminally she wants a MAN. She wants a protector (whether she needs it or not), she wants a provider (even if she is better educated and makes more money than him), and she wants good genes for her offspring (whether she wants children or not).
The modern dichotomy is this, women, since the 60’s, have been beating men about the head and shoulders with the “We want sensitive men” club. They have been forcing the medication of our sons for acting like boys (Ritalin). They punish little boys for stealing kisses, pretending a chicken nugget, pop-tart, or finger is a gun. One six year old was suspended from school for bringing in a GI Joe that had a small toy pistol in a holster!!! Back before most of this really got started (thank god), I was a little boy in the 60’s and early 70’s. I was a military brat and went to eight schools by the time I finished the eighth grade. You know what I did for the first six to eight weeks of almost every school I attended? I fought. I would get into two to four fights before it ended. Little boys have to figure out a pecking order, and fighting was the way it used to be done.. I guess now they play video games or something. The result of all of this “War on Boys” is that these boys don’t grow up to be MEN. Don’t get me wrong, they are “Nice Guys”, but when I was a kid, they would have been giving up their lunch money and getting wedgies every day. Many of these “Nice Guys” are just checking out, there is a new phenomenon in the western world called the “Sexodus”. Young men are giving up on relationships with women, settling for “hook ups” (aka one night stands), porn, or just celibacy. They fill their days with drinking, or drugs; video games and or sports; and just hanging out with the guys.
So what we are going to end up with are women, and men, living alone, and childless…

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